friends and what the hell

friends and what the hell?

It seems like with my best friend, well she is basically an ex-best friend now, that she simply could care less about me!

I don't know what has happened with our friendship. I personally have not, and know that I haven't, done anything wrong. We had been friends for about 4 years! REALLY GOOD FRIENDS AT THAT! All the sudden this year she hasn't talked to me basically at all. We have different classes etc. so that makes it an issue to see each other... but we also had different classes last year but we still made time to see each other. Well this year has been the complete opposite. It all started when I invited her to my birthday party. It was RSVP and she NEVER called, all she told me was "oh I might not make it I have a detention Saturday". Now, my party was on a Saturday, but it started at 7pm! Saturday detentions are at like 12pm at the most and only last a half an hour to an hour. So she was obviously lying about even wanting to go. At this point I had no idea if she was going at all! But she DID call my brother's friend Andrew the night of the party and told him she didn't know if she should go. SO SHE COULD HAVE GONE! She totally dissed me, which really made me pissed.Well, after the party she basically ignored me, this time really not making an effort to even acknowledge me. Then I made a new myspace (the new one is friends only, I just had so many people I didn't know on the old one). I sent her a comment saying "Hey I made a new myspace! You should add me:)" well, she never did. I know for a fact she got the comment, she just obviously doesn't feel like adding me. So yeah, she could obviously care less, and in return I have just stopped caring about her, yes it sounds harsh but I really just don't get it. I don't know if she made new friends or what, but if a friend is going to treat me like that, then I have no room for them in my life and they don't deserve MY friendship in return. I actually think I am a pretty good friend, and if she can't realize that after 4 years then GOOD BYE.

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	Havok is Lord Voldemort: 01/07/2009 6:32 PM Dear Jackie: Once I had a friend (2 years ago to be honest),she moved to my house and we were like sisters (I think i have told u this but u know my memory SUCKS so I can`t remeber a THING),more than sisters we were like TWINS.We dressed alike we acted alike , mom always said: "my 2 daughters this or that"...(ok tears are coming from my eyes) and one day she decided to move out and she stopped talking to me...and this still hurts A LOT!! and 2 years passed and I still feel like totally CRAP... Now she talks to me but IT IS NOT LIKE BEFORE u know...it is like: "hey..I have to go bye"...or if she is with her new friends she just ignore me...and I still ask to myself "what have I done??" and nothing comes to my mind cause I didn`t hurt her or anything...ppl is just like that!! they don`t have roots anywhere they just don`t feel attached to NOTHING..humanity is CRAZY!!...sometimes they don`t need a reason but their own EGO or PRIDE to kick good ppl`s ass... So the point is that it is normal (YEAH THAT STUPID BEHAVIOUR is NORMAL these days) that ppl act like that....only few ppl is different in this crazy world today... So I wnt to send kisses and hugs to one of them...TAKE CARE MY DEAR JACKIE!! :) and TALK TO U SOON!!! :)
	vengeanceluver: 01/08/2009 1:14 PM ~You know, something like that happened to me this year with a friend. She just stopped talking to me all of a sudden. And I DID make the attempt to take to her and be like we used to. And yeah, we don't have classes together this year so that could be why but still....I have many friends that don't have classes with me and we always hang...so that doesn't matter. I was pretty distraught at first but now I'm glad she stopped talking to me. We really never had much in common at all. She's too plastic and fake....just realized that now. I don't even acknowledge her now. So I'm better of now lol. And like you, I know I'm a good friend but she isn't. So you're not alone, hun. I do hope things get sorted out. Maybe you're better off without her. Some friend.
	Alyson: 01/18/2009 2:58 PM That's almost the same thing that happened with me, and I'm sure you know because I've blogged about it in the past. It sounds so incredibly cliche, but if she's like that towards you, you have every right to be like that back to her. She probably doesn't know how much she's hurting you, and that's the poisonous part. She's got a major problem with herself and not you if she can even do this to someone as great as you are. It's not your fault, at all. People change, friendships change ... it's so hard to grasp that, I know, and I'm sure it's painful right now, but hang in there. It will all get better in time. You never know, she might come around. I've seen it happen and I know it's possible. Until then, keep your head up and smile. I love you. :)